Seeking women to share feelings regarding men

Seeking women to share positive/negative feelings regarding men. We want to know how a true and real feeling should be, but also your negative experiences. Maybe we can understand ourselves and others better.
First I want to know which was your best and your worst hug experience. What feeling should send us a real hug?
I will start first and tell you how I imagine a perfect hug, because I never experienced it.
I imagine myself sitting on grass and the man coming close to me, looking deep into my eyes, putting his arms gently around me and first softly hugging me in a very natural way, no rush, as if he is afraid not to break me, trying to feel every move I make, then hugging me stronger as if he wants to protect me and never let me go. Then he starts to let me go a little but still hugging me focusing his body to feel my body and gently moving me in a sweet and tender way as if we were dancing.